It’s been a long time, shouldn’t left you without a dope blog that’s fresh too. Aww yeah. If you’re wondering what I’ve been doing, I’ve been grabbing flies with chopsticks, stroking the hair on my chin thinking about how the hairs never fall back the same way, drinking tea, meditating, and, of course, practicing Jeet Kune Do. Oh, wait, was that me or Charlie Sheen? Wasn’t me I’ve been stuck at work and school.
Stand by Your Woman
I had it all planned out a few days ago; an epic post about a near relationship-ending “fight” I got in with my girlfriend, but right now it seems rather petty and trite as she’s on her way to a hospital in Denver because she’s having pain from a recent surgery. I love her like salt loves water, it was terrible to hear her whining in agony on the phone. I couldn’t even think. She is the electrochemical signals in my nerves. I pray she will be alright. Our fight was over something worthy of KBPI’s Loveline with Dr. Drew. At any rate, she said, “I think you need a break from me. Let’s be friends.”
To which I replied, “It’s too late for that. We can’t go back now. I don’t want to just be friends. I mean I would, if I had to, but we owe it to ourselves to give this a shot. I think you’re scared.”
“No you’re scared,” she insisted, “We’ll just be friends for a week, and if you still want to be with me after that, then fine.”
“Okay,” I responded. “If I must, I’ll wait a week.” Truthfully, it scared the bejesus out of me. I didn’t want to lose her. I just knew I loved her. The next day, she called while I was at work and I told her, “Look, that stuff doesn’t matter to me. I just want to be with you.” So we made up and she knows I really care about her.
Us guys today, with free internet porn and hip-hop culture demeaning women as “hoes” just good for sticking your “jimmy” into and not calling, we’re confused individuals. Unfaithful men such as Bill Clinton and Tiger Woods are idolized for their chauvanism. Men get this fantasy into our heads and act as if getting off is the all-important end we’re after. What a joke. It’s all fake, it’s sad. Who really wants to be a player? Free love isn’t hurting anyone as long as you do it safely, it is just not for me. But doesn’t everyone really just want a soul mate, a best friend, someone to sit on the beach and have babies and grow old with? I’m going to say the same things I always say. Be true to yourself, try to pry away from the fallacies and disrespect and just look for a human being you get along with. Don’t walk in with expectations, just let things happen, or not happen, naturally. Don’t be afraid to walk away from the TV or computer screen and put yourself out there. And when you get a lady, stay true to her and treat her like the flower she is.
Random thought for the day: You never know who’s going to make an impact in your life; could be a stranger, a friend, or someone you know and don’t like.